This article delves into the unwritten rules and unique etiquette governing social gatherings, or 'sherehes', in Kenya, particularly in Nairobi. It highlights the cultural nuances from party initiation to post-event wrap-up.

• A casual "Form?" in a WhatsApp group by 9pm on a Friday signifies the start of party planning.
• Party start times are flexible, with guests typically arriving three hours after the official time to catch the best "vibe."
• Unwritten rules dictate sharing drinks, managing uninvited guests, and the strict protocol for social media posts, avoiding videos of "compromised" friends or those avoiding their pastors.
• The article emphasizes mutual responsibility for friends' safety, ensuring everyone confirms safe arrival home in the group chat, and the continuous cycle of Kenyan party culture despite "never again" vows.