A Kenyan author expresses dismay over visitors who scrutinize and judge their hosts' homes, contrasting them with considerate guests.

• The author was disturbed by a social media video of a woman asking followers to identify signs of a "dirty" host.
• The author identifies as a "model visitor" who respects their hosts' privacy and compliments their homes.
• The article highlights the effort hosts put into entertaining guests, expecting appreciation rather than judgment.